Understanding Our Emotions
Lesson Overview
- Subject: PSHE
- Topic: Emotional Literacy
- Year Group: Year 5
- Lesson Duration: 30 minutes
- Class Size: 30 pupils
- SEN Consideration: A third of the class is on the SEN register
- Focus Areas: Emotional regulation, conflict resolution, discussion-based learning, paired activities, reflection
Curriculum Links – UK PSHE Education
This lesson aligns with the PSHE Association’s Programme of Study (KS2) under the core theme of Health and Wellbeing, specifically:
- H17 – Recognising feelings and how they affect thoughts and behaviour.
- H19 – Strategies to manage feelings in a range of situations.
- R12 – Skills to resolve conflicts positively and fairly.
Lesson Objectives
By the end of this lesson, pupils will:
- Identify and name a range of different emotions.
- Understand how emotions influence behaviour and interactions.
- Practise a simple strategy for managing emotions in tricky situations.
Lesson Structure
1. Starter Activity – The ‘Emotion Jar' (5 minutes)
Purpose: Gets children thinking about emotions and sets a foundation for discussion.
- Prepare a small jar (or an imaginary one) with slips of paper inside, each listing a different emotion (e.g. excitement, frustration, disappointment, pride).
- Ask a pupil to pick one slip and read the emotion aloud.
- In pairs, children discuss:
- Have you ever felt this emotion?
- What might cause someone to feel this way?
- Take quick class feedback on a few emotions to draw out different experiences.
SEN Consideration: Provide visuals of facial expressions to support understanding of different emotions.
2. Main Activity – ‘Emotion Switchboard’ (15 minutes total)
Part 1 – What Emotions Look Like (7 minutes)
Purpose: Encourages discussion on recognising emotional cues in others.
- Display four key emotions on the board: Happy, Angry, Worried, Confused.
- In pairs, pupils discuss:
- What does this emotion look like on someone’s face?
- What body language might show this emotion?
- Select pairs to act out an emotion (no words, only expressions and gestures).
- Class guesses which emotion is being presented and discusses how they knew.
SEN Consideration: Use emotion cards with faces/body language depicted for additional support.
Part 2 – Solving Conflict (8 minutes)
Purpose: Provides a structured approach to handling emotional situations.
- Introduce the simple Stop-Think-Respond method:
- Stop – Pause before reacting.
- Think – What emotion are you feeling? What do you want to happen?
- Respond – Choose a calm approach.
- Give pairs a short scenario (e.g. "Your friend didn’t pick you for their team", "Someone took your seat at lunch").
- One partner reacts without thinking, the other follows Stop-Think-Respond.
- Swap roles and discuss:
- What worked better?
- How did taking time to think help?
SEN Consideration: Offer visual cue cards for Stop-Think-Respond to scaffold their thinking.
3. Reflective Task – My Personal Toolbox (5 minutes)
Purpose: Encourages self-awareness and personal emotional strategies.
- Each pupil writes or draws two personal strategies they could use when dealing with a strong emotion (e.g. deep breathing, counting to ten, talking to a friend).
- Share a few examples with the class.
- End the lesson with a group affirmation, e.g., "We can control our emotions and handle challenges calmly."
SEN Consideration: Provide sentence starters (e.g. "When I feel upset, I can...") to aid reflection.
Assessment for Learning (AfL)
✅ Observations during discussions and role-play.
✅ Listening to explanations during Stop-Think-Respond.
✅ Reviewing personal strategy cards for self-regulation ideas.
Resources Needed
- Emotion Jar (or word cards)
- Emotion visual aids
- Scenario cards
- Sentence starters for reflection
Adaptations for Diverse Learners
✔ Use visuals and gesture-based prompts for SEN support.
✔ Provide additional adult support for group discussions.
✔ Allow verbal responses for pupils who struggle with writing.
✔ Offer role-play scenarios with clear prompts for confidence-building.
Key Takeaway Message
Emotions are normal, but how we handle them is our choice! This lesson will help children build emotional awareness and practical conflict-resolution skills they can use in everyday life.
Teacher Reflection After Lesson
📝 Did engagement levels remain high?
📝 Which discussion techniques worked best?
📝 How can strategies introduced today be reinforced in future lessons?
This plan is designed to be engaging, discussion-based, and inclusive for all Year 5 pupils, supporting their emotional development in an interactive and structured way. 😊